Sunday, June 20, 2010
New Relationship Over
Well the luck I asked for last week did not do much good. My relationship came to an end out of the blue after two and a half months. No fights, no arguments, no warning. Its crazy how everything can be going well and then poof all is changed. I am shocked at how much this hurts and the rejection that is felt. Why cant people use communication to get through things rather than just taking the easy way out and ending everything . I wish I had never opened myself up to again be hurt. This is just so hard and painful.
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You could look at this in a better light...at least now you know that this was not the right one for you.At least you didn't move in together, get engaged, or get pregnant only to find out that this is his reaction to life's situations.Perhaps you are better off,it just depends on how you look at it.You could always be grateful that you didn't waste a lot of time on a wanker.Good luck to you Shel,its his loss.
ReplyDeleteWow, that was quick! I second what Janine said. It is his loss!
ReplyDeleteThis same thing happened recently to my oldest daughter. She had been divorced 18 months and had only a few dates all that time, while her ex-husband married within the year. She is protecting her 6 year old daughter from changing alliances, etc. She met this guy recently through friends and they moved really fast to a BIG connection. She was so happy because he seemed perfect . . . they talked and texted every day and sat on the front porch swing after she put her daughter to bed and had several special dates . . . for about two months. Then, he broke it off suddenly claiming he needed to work on himself and his relationship issues, getting serious so fast (he has been married 3 times).
She was very sad for about 3 days, then just became philosophical about it and moved on. But, I know she was hurt.